Today’s lesson talks about giving in versus giving up, and Griffinstein updates. I see people giving up everyday. Giving in is different because that is when an outside force batters you until you acquiesce. Giving up is an internal force that batters you, which to me equals hopelessness, helplessness, and ultimately depression.
There are so many resources and people willing to help, but no one wants to be “judged” which we are everyday. “Judged” is what some people say when they don’t want their mistakes or shortcomings as a human to be remedied by another better yet recognized by another, so we all try to take care of our problems in house. Which leads to giving up because we obviously can’t do it on our own or we would have done. My aim is to help so I hope fully that this is helpful to you really. Tongue twister on purpose…Please enjoy Lesson 50 of How Do You View You.
Today episode talks about freedom and what it means to be “free”. Too often we take for granted the meaning of freedom, to most of us it means being able to go where you want if you want. As I have gotten older, I see I cannot go anywhere I want, not without consequences. People have been kept out of opportunities and upward mobility, based on their freedom level.
I can walk into an exclusive Golf club (I don’t golf) but I will be escorted out and could possibly loose my life. This episode explores a different kind of freedom risking it for others that really do not respect the sacrifice you would be making. I know people that will go to jail for a shoplifting and would not think nothing of it, where if I am with them we ALL go. A pound ass snicker is not worth my being handcuffed and sat in a car and being in the system. On the other hand if I see a person getting hurt, I have to decide never an easy decision, when its strangers. Its a fine line and I go into the issue deeper.
Todays episode is about the challenges and misconceptions of breaking generational curses. And by any means money is not the answer, it can’t be. If a person gets off drugs or whatever the curse is for that generation. If you can remember the curse you are still part of it.
This is not downing any one’s’ accomplishments at all, conversely it’s just to call some people’s attention to the future you. In a word, breaking generational curses is huge responsibility. It will not be easy and it requires you to talk to people you may not like, but the future is the goal. Let’s be clear, this is really only for people that want to see the future with them in it. Meaning, if you pass knowledge in this world you are always here. In my family, they still talk about my great grandfather. Even after all of these years. A story of his exploits would make a very good western. Besides, if there is no family to tell about him we lose a hero, someone that we came from who was strong.
Lastly, engage with family now just to talk about. Everyone will not be on board. Do not ridicule those who chooses not to be part of this family thing, preferably celebrate those that show up. In spite of businesses failing or prospering, the children are watching. Take your time and explain to them the losses and wins, the decision making. You do not have to make money to WIN. Just know what you’re playing for and make that the priority. Find happiness in seeing your kids grow strong and never having to go through what you went through. Breaking generational curses.
Griffinstein talks about cancel culture and speaking one’s mind when it doesn’t coincide with popular opinion. People are very sensitive to something’s said but not others. Feelings are taken as fact, and fact taken as opinion. He speaks on this and finding motivation in one’s self, when doubt is high and things look bleak. Updates on GAWSPEL and book plans. #motivation #cancelculture #griffinstein
Griffinstein sits and talks with His cousin Danny McLane CEO of Jamii Technology. They talk about entitlement, competition, and feeling comfortable learning.
Griffinstein talks about dealing with loss and not getting lost. Last weekedn he lost his camera riding his bike and saw all of his dreams flaot away. But that is the first stage of loss. But noty becoming lost after the loss. May be confusing, but This is Episode 40 of How Do You View You…
In this episode, Griffinstein talks about Mental health and lacking iron in his diet. He also speaks on how he shook the depression. Also, in The Art Of StoryTelling he delves into the thought that there will be a grand table for selling your soul. Simply stating “Selling of the Soul” will be a quiet affair between you and you. Choices may be offered, but choosing is on you. Lastly Griffinstein updates evryone on D.A.R.K. News all of the goings on with “Finder’s Keeper’s” The Movie and The Process video shoot and upcoming opportunities. Like sharing your own voice at the Ferry Festival Happening in Richmond on June 11th. Please sit back and enjoy Episode 39 of How do you view you?
Griffinstein delves into the topic of How would you raise you? Are you a bad parent if you are putting food on the table but can’t nurture your child’s talent. Some of us may have missed out on our greatest gifts because it wasn’t allowed to grow. Griffinstein also tells a story that should be funny but does not turn out that way, but full of game. Please enjoy episode 36… #griffinstein # howdoyouviewyou #darknetwork #podcasts
Griffinstein talks about upcoming projects in music, film , and artistry. Also, staying outta Walmart, there are characters in there. Please enjoy episode 32 of How Do You View You…
Griffinstein chops it up with world renowned rap artist Vicious V, also owner of Real Richmond llc. V is a renaissance man, real estate, clothing line, artist, and co host of Da Agenda podcast exclusively on the D.A.R.K. Network. A lot of game was exchanged on this one. If you are serious about entrepreneurship pay attention, he has the mind state. Please sit back and enjoy episode 27 of How Do You View You?
Griffinstein chops it up with Big Doug, a Richmond legend. This documentarian has told the stories that others won’t touch, but need to be told. His latest “Uzikee” is a masterpiece. Please look on YouTube for it. Mr. Harris also works telling stories for the Richmond Museum, the city, and sports.
Griffinstein chops it up with Psycho Trap Rapper PharaohVenom911, they talk about dark music, children, and entheogen. PharaohVenom911 is a Richmond artist who has a unique rhyme flow and created his own genre “Psycho Trap”. With titles like Blood Thirsty and Katanas he will be gaining notoriety quickly.
PharaohVenom911 is a philosopher and a medicine man looking to natural remedies to cure maladies. A very proud father his sole wish is that his son does better than him and he will give him all the tools to do this. Please enjoy episode 25 of How Do You View You?
On this episode of How Do You View You, Griffinstein sits down with Author, Mentor, Entrepreneur, and Poet, TJ Sykes. His book “Section 8” is on Barnes and Nobles. His candied walnuts are available for delivery. He mentors at RYSE in Richmond, and the wordplay of his poetry can be heard at an “Open Mic” coming soon to The Rich.
TJ is firmly focused on his mental and physical health. Through meditation, yoga,hiking, cycling, and eating no meat or dairy he loves his life. Recognizing pitfalls of his family history and bypassing them by being healthy. His candied walnut business “Devine Treats” is a delicious treat with flavors Calming Apple Cinnamon, Strawberry Bliss, Chocolate infused with Seamoss, and more please hit him up on Instagram _DevineTreats2020. These are great over salads or fruit. Please enjoy episode 24 of the How Do You View You show.
Griffinstein explores the issue of mental health with long time friend Lavette Grant. She talks about her day to day life dealing with depression, anxiety, and agoraphobia. Lavette believes that trauma in life, that is not properly addressed will manifest as mental issues. Anger, overly self conscious, and drug abuse are just a few ways it could manifest. In the world we live in today scrutiny and stigma shapes the thoughts on mental health. It is not a weak condition, it is a call to action. Just like any other sickness you treat it so that life is manageable. Lavette will be kicking off her own podcast called “Loving My Growth Podcast” here on the Dark Network later this month. Where she will dedicate her voice to shining a light in the dark spaces. Please enjoy episode 22 of How Do You View You.
I sit down with Coach “Big James” Portlock, a Richmond native. James is a youth basketball coach for Salesians High School. He is also part of Team Rampage, a youth basketball league based in Vallejo. I have know James for about 35 years. We both grew up in Easter Hill, a housing project on the south side of Richmond. This was the 80’s and crack was in full swing. The things we saw in the streets was not for kids to see. And a lot of us did not make it, so I try to celebrate any of us doing good after all this time.
James is a father, coach, and a car salesman, and he feels proud to be each one. His daughter is his life, his reason for living. While coaching, serves as his way of giving back. Now as a car salesman, he explains that he is not trying to sell cars. He is in truth helping friends get the best car for them at the time. That perspective is what helps him stay focused at Kia of Oakland. James has been through ups and downs in his life he owned and operated his own dealership, but as he spoke about in the podcast it wasn’t his time and he is ok with that. He says it was not a failure, he learned from the whole process. And when the time is right he will do another dealership the best way possible.
Coach “Big James” Portlock has a lot of projects and dreams he has yet to achieve. A coaching job at a major college, hopes of bringing sports to Richmond, and to help people in need of help. He is a good dude and we will be checking in with him soon to check on his progress and see if we can help in any endeavors that he is undertaking. Everybody has a story. How Do You View You?
